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Consider a One Minute
Vacation to Manage Stress
Paula is a mother of three school aged children
and a nurse in a busy practice of internal medicine. Her afternoons
are filled with drop offs and pickups to after school activities,
shopping and other errands; homework, dinner preparation and a host
of other household chores leave little personal time. Stressful?
Conrad listens attentively to news of Iraq where
his oldest daughter is on a tour of duty. After work, he stops by
to visit his widowed mother who is showing signs of early dementia;
he shares a cup of tea and completes a few small chores. Stressful?
Stephanie is a first year teacher and is eager
to be a success. She has high hopes for the class and wants to help
her students love to learn. As with most first time teachers, she
is finding the demands of classroom management, paperwork and lesson
planning difficult to balance. Stressful?
Stress is a natural experience for Paula, Conrad
and Stephanie who are all attempting to manage multiple and demanding
responsibilities. When we experience stress from an overloaded schedule
or in response to circumstances over which we have no control, our
cortisol levels are likely to increase. Many people find feeling
stressed as a stress inducer itself resulting in a cycle of escalating
and needlessly high levels of anxiety. Since too much stress can
take a serious toll on physical and emotional well being, it makes
sense to learn strategies that will to moderate stress.
Paula, Conrad and Stephanie have all learned to
use the One Minute Vacations (OMV) to help moderate needless anxiety
and keep their levels of stress within manageable levels. To take
One Minute Vacation choose a place that you associate with feeling
at ease and relaxed. Many people opt for a nature setting e.g.,
the beach, sitting by a stream, a garden. It really does not matter
what you choose, what does matter is that you associate it with
a feeling of reduced stress and relaxation.
Now, close your eyes and in your imagination go
to the OMV place you have chosen, think of its sights, sounds and
smells. Breath deeply and slowly as you imagine taking off your
shoes and wiggling your toes and stretching as you feel the breezes.
Would you like to lay down on the warm grass or sand? If so, imagine
doing it.
The more you practice taking One Minute Vacations,
the more effective you will find it as a strategy to help moderate
stress. A One Minute Vacation will not solve the problems we face
in our daily lives but it will help us to use our energy for the
things that matter - try it.
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